Big Things Come in Small Packages! This concise guide is a great gift for the new man in your life. Or the old man in your life. Or literally any man. It breaks down the basics of being a good lover no matter what the particulars of the sex or participants. Whether it's a one-night stand, friends with benefits, a long-term committed relationship, or a marriage, sex can be good in just about any context. Ms. Gilmore doesn't judge anyone for their sexual preferences, how often they have sex, or with whom they have sex. But she does know that sexual activities should make all participants feel appreciated and connected. Although this book is aimed at men, it's helpful for women, too. While Gilmore wrote this book out of love, she includes some obligatory snark for your reading pleasure. It's an entertaining, high-impact overview of the ways to make sex better.