"Great sex is less about how you position your pelvis and more about how you position your heart" Ever wonder why Christians seem to get left out of the "fun sex" loop? And what if God actually intended Christians to have the best sex ever? In a society where it seems sex is talked about everywhere but within the four walls of the church, and where it seems to be sizzling everywhere except the marriage bed, it appears we may have a problem on our hands. With her signature warmth and transparency, Joy takes on the myths and mysteries of sex and marriage within the Christian subculture. Through the lens of raw faith, and with the compassion of one who's tasted the shame and regret of sexual brokenness, Joy sets out to debunk some of the lies we believe, expose truth we may have missed and, with refreshing candor straight from the trenches of motherhood, she encourages us to wholeheartedly pursue God's best for our marriages. You'll discover... - Why sex is under attack and what you can do to fight back - How the church has unknowingly misrepresented God's heart on sex - How to cultivate a safe environment to speak openly about sex with your spouse - Why carving out time for intimacy, even when you're not in the mood, has the potential to transform your marriage and improve your overall well-being - Practical ideas & helpful resources to take your intimacy to the next level *Plus: 10 exclusive Simply Bloom printables designed just for you! CHAPTERS: 1. What Door? 2. Taking Up Residence 3. A Losing Battle 4. The God of Sex 5. Chasing Extraordinary 6. On Perennials and Patience 7. Because Marriage is Just Hard 8. At Nascar in a Horse-Drawn Carriage 9. The Truth About Men and Sex 10. Honey, I Have A {Life} 11. Stop, Drop and Roll 12. The Joy Thief 13. Spirit Mingler 14. Fifty Shades of Counterfeit 15. Ditch The Carcass 16. Journey of Joy 17. Wrap it Up 18. Practical Ideas to Turn XES Around 19. Resources 20. Exclusive Printables