You've told your partner you're sorry, recognised you've made some bad choices and want to put the past behind you. Unfortunately, your attempts to make things better blow up in your face and your partner keeps getting hurt all over again. Alternatively, you don't know what you truly want. One minute you're committed to saving your marriage and the next wondering if it's past saving and tempted to contact your affair partner again. Whatever the circumstances, your discussions about the affair go round in circles or keep coming back to the same questions that either you can't answer or your partner considers your responses inadequate. Andrew G. Marshall is a marital therapist with over thirty years' experience helping couples recover from infidelity and in this compassionate book, he will help you: — Find clarity for once and for all. — Stop getting overwhelmed by the pain and communicate more effectively. — Avoid the traps which suck the hope out of your recovery. — Find the answers to important questions from your partner. — Tackle both the immediate crisis and the underlying problems that caused it. — Break the cycle that's hurting you both. — Work together as a team to find a way forward. If you're the injured party and can't get your head round how your partner could have been unfaithful, this book will help you too. By putting it into your partner's hands, you'll open his or her eyes to why he or she keeps making matters worse. Just as importantly, you'll get an insight into what's going on inside his or her mind.