Exchanges of energy speak louder than words in dealing with people, creating the bonds of sympathy or rejection, influencing our relationship choices. Our affinities, psychological and cultural values, prejudices, interests also interfere in this process. On a day-to-day basis, you select friendships and you can control differences well, but what about family relationships, when life puts people in your way with whom you will have to relate for life? What do you do when you love one childperson and reject another, plunging into guilt without finding explanations for your feelings? The cause goes beyond the simple exchange of everyday energies and is hidden in unresolved problems from other lives that come back for a solution. No matter how hard you try, you cannot keep that person out of your life. She/he will be close to the solution. Or, if you prefer: UNTIL LIFE SET THEM APART. Zibia Gasparetto