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Coles Unbecoming: Shedding Who You Were Told to Be to Become Who You Are at Village Green Shopping Centre in Vernon, BC
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You were handed a self before you could choose it. It is time to give it back.
From your earliest years, you were told who to be: nice, agreeable, accommodating, pleasing. You wore that self so long it came to feel like you. But it was never you — it was who you were told to be. And underneath it, waiting, is who you actually are.
Unbecoming is a bold, clear-eyed guide to shedding the borrowed self. Vivian Blackwood does not offer soothing platitudes; she offers a galvanising invitation to let go of the good girl, silence the internalised voices of others, step out of the roles you never chose, and find the courage to disappoint the people attached to the self you were assigned. This is not self-improvement, the endless adding of more. It is subtraction — the freeing practice of removing everything that is not you, so that the self you actually are can finally emerge.
With honesty and fire, this book walks you through the whole passage: the masks you wear and the freedom of taking them off; the grief of leaving the old self behind; the fear that keeps you in the borrowed self and how to move through it; the reclaiming of your own long-buried desire; the discomfort of the in-between; and the pushback you will face when you dare to change. And then the turn the whole practice was aiming at — becoming: the fierce, alive emergence of the woman you were underneath all along.
You do not have to keep the self you were handed. You can shed it. You can become who you actually are. And you can belong, at last, to yourself.
You were handed a self before you could choose it. It is time to give it back.
From your earliest years, you were told who to be: nice, agreeable, accommodating, pleasing. You wore that self so long it came to feel like you. But it was never you — it was who you were told to be. And underneath it, waiting, is who you actually are.
Unbecoming is a bold, clear-eyed guide to shedding the borrowed self. Vivian Blackwood does not offer soothing platitudes; she offers a galvanising invitation to let go of the good girl, silence the internalised voices of others, step out of the roles you never chose, and find the courage to disappoint the people attached to the self you were assigned. This is not self-improvement, the endless adding of more. It is subtraction — the freeing practice of removing everything that is not you, so that the self you actually are can finally emerge.
With honesty and fire, this book walks you through the whole passage: the masks you wear and the freedom of taking them off; the grief of leaving the old self behind; the fear that keeps you in the borrowed self and how to move through it; the reclaiming of your own long-buried desire; the discomfort of the in-between; and the pushback you will face when you dare to change. And then the turn the whole practice was aiming at — becoming: the fierce, alive emergence of the woman you were underneath all along.
You do not have to keep the self you were handed. You can shed it. You can become who you actually are. And you can belong, at last, to yourself.
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