This memoir was written to explain the obstacles and challenges I have personally encountered in my life and my career choices. What I want to make plain to the reader is that when you experience bumps and obstacles in life you can overcome and still succeed. Also, I want to emphasize the process of grief and how to not succumb to depression and to fuel your life with things that may leave a legacy on your behalf and the deceased one. It doesn't matter if you were born with nothing, and who your parents, are, nor the mistakes you made, you can overcome.