Village Green Shopping Centre | Vernon's Premier Shopping Destination
Choice Made Simple!
Too many options?Click below to purchase an online gift card that can be used at participating retailers in Village Green Shopping Centre and continue your shopping IN CENTRE!Purchase Here
Coles Not Everything Is Yours To Carry: A Guide to Boundaries Without Guilt or Apology at Village Green Shopping Centre in Vernon, BC
*Product information may vary - to confirm product availability, pricing, shipping and return information please contact Coles
There is a particular kind of exhaustion that has nothing to do with how much you slept. It lives in your shoulders, settles behind your eyes, and shows up on Sunday evenings as a low, nameless dread before a week you did not choose but somehow agreed to.
This guide was written for people who say yes when they mean no, who apologize for things that are not their fault, and who feel guilty for even considering that they might want something different. That guilt is not a character flaw. It is a learned response that taught you your worth was contingent on your usefulness.
Drawing from Stoicism, Taoism, and Buddhism, Not Everything Is Yours to Carry offers a philosophical framework strong enough to hold you when the pressure to cave returns. Every one of these traditions teaches the same essential truth: boundarylessness is not virtue. It is confusion.
This guide includes five practices you can apply immediately: The Yes Audit, The Archaeology of No, The Body Check-In, The Weight Inventory, and The No That Holds. Each one builds on the last, moving from honest self-awareness through to the actual language of a clean, guilt-free no.
A boundary is not a wall. It is a definition. And you are allowed to put down what was never yours to carry in the first place.
There is a particular kind of exhaustion that has nothing to do with how much you slept. It lives in your shoulders, settles behind your eyes, and shows up on Sunday evenings as a low, nameless dread before a week you did not choose but somehow agreed to.
This guide was written for people who say yes when they mean no, who apologize for things that are not their fault, and who feel guilty for even considering that they might want something different. That guilt is not a character flaw. It is a learned response that taught you your worth was contingent on your usefulness.
Drawing from Stoicism, Taoism, and Buddhism, Not Everything Is Yours to Carry offers a philosophical framework strong enough to hold you when the pressure to cave returns. Every one of these traditions teaches the same essential truth: boundarylessness is not virtue. It is confusion.
This guide includes five practices you can apply immediately: The Yes Audit, The Archaeology of No, The Body Check-In, The Weight Inventory, and The No That Holds. Each one builds on the last, moving from honest self-awareness through to the actual language of a clean, guilt-free no.
A boundary is not a wall. It is a definition. And you are allowed to put down what was never yours to carry in the first place.
Find everything in-store including new, used and children’s books, music, movies, games and toys. Visit Coles today to find the perfect gift, or a novel for yourself. COVID-19 UPDATE: Open | Regular Centre Hours
