As you read, you may wonder what moved me to write about such things as these to follow. You see, some time ago I discovered that it's the untold things in our lives that often contribute the most to who we've become. The untold stories, good and bad, have been used by God to mold me into the woman that I am today. In this book, unsung heroes will be recognized, villains will be exposed, and ALL will be forgiven. Letting go of my past and forgiving me was the hardest thing I ever had to do. I used to believe that what others said, thought or felt about me defined my worth and my destiny. I've come to understand that the key to my health, my sanity, and my blessings all lay in my obedience to God. I hope that you can learn from my stories and experiences and find your own path to obedience. The true stories to follow are being shared for the making of a woman somewhere that has no idea that your mess can become her ministry and the fuel that propels you into excellence. No matter what you've been through or what you've done because of it, you are worthy of being loved, worthy of respect, and you do indeed have a purpose for being here. I am stepping into a very vulnerable position to share things that may cause you to judge me. If you feel tempted to judge, remember that God is faithful and just to forgive. I would ask you to show me some grace as well. For the reader who can identify with any part of my life, be encouraged. God is not finished with you yet. Your purpose is meant to help others. Just trust Him.