This practical guide for conflict professionals directs the reader to pay attention to emotional clues - which can unearth unacknowledged feelings, concerns, and priorities that can be central to resolving the conflict if we understand and communicate them. It entails conflict professionals to consider self-reflection, challenging typical conventions of conflict professionals by replacing them with a full and deep commitment to bringing all of one's self to serve others. A resource that presents how to access your internal selves when working with people in conflict in a way that is constructive for clients.