Understanding God's order and purpose for marriage is of the utmost importance, because to marry and miss it, is to enter a life full of frustration and disappointment setting the stage for great marital unrest and destruction of one's life. Marriage is union between a male man and a female man to establish a familial bond that is recognized by God, granting them mutual conjugal rights and responsibilities to accomplish His plan on earth. Marriage is a sacred vow between male and female in a holy matrimony who understand that their union is a plan of God for their destiny to make and bring forth the purpose of the coming of God's kingdom and His Will being done on earth as it is in heaven Our arch enemy, Satan thrives on our ignorance. Many issues in our marriage relationship which never occurred to us as anything significant are from our ancestral bloodline. They are the snare keeping us in bondage, although we are born again. Do not just defy barriers. Shatter them by godly wisdom, understanding, and knowledge in this most misconstrued, misunderstood, and abused relationship is most desired and desperately needed.