Divorce is a bull-dozer through your mental and emotional house at midnight. This book clarifies some basic issues nearly all men over-look or ignore when confronted with separation and divorce. Using the information in the book will guide a man to realize he is able to steer a better course through this emotional mine-field. Most approaches to divorce include legal tactics, money manoeuvres and various mind-games. This book avoids the 'war-games' and endeavours to steer a course that will enlighten and hopefully relieve some of the anger and angst that is the norm in marriage break-ups. The subjects of self-awareness, the seven stages of grief and the forgiveness process are the staples here; to enable a man to get a handle on the real issues in his life. While not a magic bullet or panacea for divorce the information and suggestions go a long way to build bridges of communication and understanding and assist in creating stability for someone who wants to build a better situation in their personal and family life.