A strikingly honest account of how I changed my approach to love and relationships. My unsustainable and compulsive behaviour with the women in my life had finally exploded in my face, and I was forced to confront the consequences of my actions and the reality of what my life had become. I was in my mid-thirties and had realized that I was incapable of connection and intimacy. I relied on compulsive and addicted behaviour to distract me from the real work I needed to do to be able to have a happy and healthy long-term relationship in my life. In this book, I detail some of the bad things I did as well as the process of change that I underwent. I was forced to really examine who I was and do the uncomfortable work to change. I examine all sorts of questions related to the nature of love, relationships, monogamy, and what it really takes to be happy. What I found out challenged everything I thought I knew. This book will give you the insight you need to get into and stay in a relationship while feeling that you have all you ever need.