Introduction: The ability to cope and adapt to life depends on the perspective and personality of human beings. Personality is something that is formed in the social and family environment and the family may have the most important impact on it. There are 3 beliefs that despite them, you can cope with any problem, and even in the most difficult situations, feel calm and reach the best solution: I have, I am and I can. I have: that a person has the feeling that he is loved and that someone cares about him. When you are in a healthy and loving family, you will believe in the best way. I have a family that is important to them: I am: Who I am and what my position is to be happy as a child - girl or boy - and to know that I am important to others and can help them means I have a family that needs me.I can: It is the best manifestation of self-confidence. This means that we do not see any way out for ourselves and are aware of our own abilities and how we can be useful to others. It is a belief that tells us, "There is no impasse in the world, either I will find a way or I will build a way." It is certain that the key role of parents in the family will be the main solution to the emergence of such feelings among children and then society. In the memories I have with me from my childhood and adolescence, there are many signs of my father's efforts to create these beliefs that I would like others to know.The memoirs in this book show my father's scientific and correct behavior in dealing with family and other people. I personally believe that my father behaved in such a way, relying on his own pure nature. However, as I mentioned in one of my memoirs, he also studied applied concepts of psychology. I think that if anyone loves life, himself and those around him and is also confronted with divine love - which mystics believe has been entrusted to all human beings and it is enough to say it to wake up - it can be so May everyone love him and make him a role model for themselves.The recollection of these memories on my lips in many cases of satisfaction and gratitude, which is always accompanied by a sigh of regret, why I have enough time to thank all this intellectual and this personality that has been hidden in me from my family during those years. I did not and my father left us very soon. Still, years later, whenever I see a girl being caressed by her father, I miss my father( 1950-2000) and shed tears of regret.(Zagros is the name of the high mountain range of western Iran