This is my story documenting the things I was and wasn't able to do before and after my loved ones passed away. I am afraid that I have learned a lot about being prepared by discovering I was not prepared. I list how I dealt with insurance companies for car, home, health, and life policies. Information is also listed on 401(k)s, IRAs, and annuities, paperwork that might be needed to get into a nursing home, and also what you may need when dealing with funeral homes. There is also information for your lawyer for dealing with a will, trust, probate, and taxes. We all have a story to tell. I hope my story helps you to make good choices with your time and money in your situation. After all, it's best to Be Prepared, We Are All Going to Die .