Growing up is hard!Eventually we all grow up physically, but it's how we grow emotionally and spiritually, that separates us from the rest. Most of us have someone in our lives that have been there to help us grow in those way's. Thankfully I had my dad, pastors, and Godly friends to help me in my journey and now I have my beautiful and loving wife. I know some of you do not have a father, or a pastor, but I bet you have someone to look up to and that can help you on your journey. Find that person and thank them for helping guide you in the right direction and be thankful they saw what you could be and not just what you were. Here are some tips that I wished I would have listened to earlier in life, and to be the man God needed me to be. But the best thing is we don't live in the past, and neither does God, we can change the way we do things with God's help.