Based on the most detailed survey of longmarried people ever conducted, 30 Lessons for Loving shows the way to lifelong, fulfilling relationships. Renowned gerontologist Karl Pillemer''s 30 Lessons for Living first became a hit and then became a classic. Now he offers sage advice from 700 elders on everything from finding a partner, to deciding to commit, to growing old together. Filled with great stories and wise observations, this book is destined to become another classic.