Would the small gay boy you once were look up to the gay man you have become? This is the question that Dr. Joe Kort explores as he guides readers through the complex journey of becoming a gay man. Dr. Kort points out that the beginning of this journey is about taking responsibility for your own life, and reading this book shows you exactly how to do this. Readers will learn how to identify their own internalized homophobia that is preventing many of gay men from leading satisfying lives and keeping them from having healthy relationships. Gay men often say that after coming out they feel better at first, but for many it doesn''t last. 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Improve Their Lives provides a thorough map for navigating through the difficult terrain of becoming the gay man you want to be in the context of your family, of your sexual health, and ultimately of a partnered relationship. * Discover how to find your authentic gay self * Learn the five biggest mistakes gay men make when seeking a relationship * Understand how to understand loved ones who disapprove of you being gay * Overcome damaging patterns that are holding you back from a healthy sex life About the Author Joe Kort, Ph.D., LMSW is a licensed sex and relationship therapist in Royal Oak, Michigan. in practice since 1985, he specializes in sexual addiction, sex therapy, GLBTQ issues and Image Relationship Therapy. He provides weekend workshops for gay couples and singles along with individual, group and couples therapy and coaching. Visit him online at www.JoeKort.com.